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Sunday, June 13, 2021

Our mind

 our mind controls everything. It not only controls our bodies but also our thoughts and imaginations. Our thoughts and imaginations are the tools using which we can expand the horizon of our minds. We should develop an understanding of how our mind works as well as we should learn how we can have control over our mind. If we do not have control over our minds, our life will become miserable and will get destroyed in such a way that we will never know. Our mind subtly controls things. It does take time to accept things. It will never accept anything new unless you work on it and try to have control. Whenever you go to a new place, meet new people, enter some marriage hall completely above your status,suppose if you have never sat on a chair we would feel embarrassed awkward while sitting on a chair in front of some people, go to a new village where no one knows us, what is it in all these circumstances that make us feel awkward. When we start learning a new language or new subject, initially it is difficult to grasp the subject but as soon as we get accustomed to this the effort to learn that subject starts reducing. Now we need a little effort to have our command over the subjects we are learning or we become fluent in the language we had started speaking. it's the direction that has to be given to our mind. giving direction to our mind indicates we are focusing our mental energy on one thing. the mental energy is like a river that flows without knowing the obstacles, it would keep flowing unless it meets its goal. In a similar manner, the river also keeps flowing before it meets the ocean. after the mind has got the direction, the mind knows nothing happening by side. it doesn't even bifurcate pains from happiness, you would always feel happy if you have given direction to your mind. the great rule of mind is that you would not feel any suffering, any pain when you have provided directly to your mind, it would not feel pain, it would feel only happiness. when the mind is flowing like a river, there is only one thing in our life and that is happiness. sorrow will never come in that situation. once we have achieved our goal, our happiness will achieve peak happiness. if again we don't give other direction to our mind, the happiness from our life will start fading. now again we come to a situation where happiness would depend on our physical condition. when the mind has not been given direction, our happiness would depend on our physical condition our health, and the environment where we live. and the attitude of ours.


take a situation where you have developed the wrong habit of drinking wine. the first time when you started drinking, it was easier for you to remove the habit.at this time you required zero effort to quit. suppose you did not remove the habit of drinking wine. after a month of you started drinking you want to quit wine. it would require suppose 10joule of your mental energy. if you had wanted from the heart it could easily be quit. suppose now it has passed 4 months since you started drinking. the effort to remove it has multiplied manifold. it may require 1000s of joules of your mental energy. the more time you spend drinking wine, the more it would become difficult for you to remove the wine-drinking habit. it's the same as giving direction to your mind. now the direction has been given to your mind. it would flow like a river without knowing any suffering any pain, it would only feel happy but the people around you do not have the habit of drinking wine. so, they are living in a different world. they would feel sorrow for you. but the drunkard will not feel any pain even if lying in mud .its about the choice we want to have in our life. we have two choices either to give the right direction or the wrong direction. now let me remind you that there is no right direction or wrong direction it's about the choice we want to have. the right direction is called the right direction because society accepts it, and your health favors it.

there are many people whose mind always wanders. he would be studying but thinking about home
when at home thinking about study and career. it's the people who have not given directly to the mind.
Therefore such people's mind always tries to wander and its mind wants to have control over the people. whatever I have discussed till now.
one question arises how direction can be given to the mind. there is no hard and fast rule for giving direction to the mind. have you ever thought of how the habit of smoking cigarettes struck you last time. if you want to give direction to your mind work on it. do it regularly. slowly your mind would start accepting it. initially, the intensity of the flow of your mind is not strong, try to avoid the company of people who has different direction of their mind. their mental energy can distract you from your path.
the initial weak intensity of the flow of your mind will get stronger and stronger day by day if you keep working towards the same thing. now the small obstacles in your path would not be able to distract you, which means they would not be able to change the flow direction of your mind. Newton's law can easily be applied to it.

the flowing of the mind like a river indicates that mental energy has also direction and magnitude.
its direction can be changed by a mental energy force coming from other people. not only people but anything in the universe can change the direction of your mental energy. newton's first law says if a body is at rest it would remain at rest if in uniform motion it would always be in uniform motion unless an external force act on it. the same law applies to our minds.
we all must have observed that some people enjoy eating bread and tea alone, some other people like eating boiled rice and water in combination with salt but the same thing is not liked by another set of people. my question is why do these things happen. I should delve into this and a conclusion must be drawn.it can be stated as....this is all about the game of mind. our mind does not accept new things. but it is a matter of concern that a calculation formula or a scale has to be developed to measure the extent to which people does like it or not.
when it was the first time in childhood we started eating boiled rice and water the neurons in our mind related to this started forming and each other day we ate boiled rice and water the neuron of this matter was getting stronger day by day suppose now it has been around 25 years of your age and you want to quit this habit.it is not possible for you even thinking about leaving this habit. your mind will 
not allow you to leave this habit. because your mind has made a lot of neurons of this hABit.and it would take a lot of effort for your mind to remove the habit. so your mind wants that
whatever habit you have developed to not quit. it would cause a lot of problems. so please be careful while developing your habits. once you developed your habit. it would be a very tough deal for your mind to remove that habit. whatever may be the habit. it may be the right habit or wrong habit .our mind does not differentiate between the right habit and the wrong habit. whatever things you do, it would make neurons out of it. forming neurons in your mind means it would remind you of the same thing to do it again at the same time. because you enjoy eating and your mind has got a habit of enjoying this and your mind is related to your body. your mind tries to keep your body in a protected condition and your mind is completely different and outside of you. please try to understand.
your mind is part of your body and you are not your body .your are different from your mind .try to avoid confusion and let's understand the mind and you. your soul is separate from your mind and your body. your mind works in conjunction with your body. when you die your mind also dies after some time your body has died. but your soul never dies .try to have control over yourself and please understand the meaning of your soul.
once we feel that our mind is different from our soul. you can utilize the enormous power and energy of your soul. you will be enlightened and there will be no effect of any happiness and sorrow on yourself. you will feel very much enlightened and anger, ego, and envy like disabilities will get removed automatically from your mind.
so what we have to do we have to feel our soul. it is the only way using which you can reach Allah otherwise there is no other way of going to Allah. If you ask about the way how to feel your soul. this answer can not be given by anybody else because after all, we are human beings and as a human being
we are bound to have a lot of disabilities .for this you have to avoid the company of others and try to discover the inner self.do not get entangled with your mind
your mind is something that is a big problem while searching for your soul. that is a very much complicated task and very few people get through their souls' 
 such people born thousands of years .such people do not bear in a day. knowing your soul you will be free from all the problems of the world. nothing in the world can either distract you from focusing on your goal or disturb you in any other way. then you would not be having any goals or dreams. because meeting your soul gives you the answer to all things and ultimately you would understand how foolish people are busy with some affairs that would not benefit you in any other way. so why indulge yourself in some affairs that do not concern you. some people may ask what is the way to get to your soul. there is no known path. the earth is an examination ground where you have been sent and a question paper has been presented before you but you do not know the question paper.
 in reality, you know the question paper first tries to know your question paper what question has been asked by Almighty Allah. we all know all energy comes from one source and that source is Allah.
some people say that they believe in multigrid culture but i can say that they are wrong they should correct themselves. we know all energy comes from one source and the energy has been distributed to everything in the universe. everything in the universe is the energy of some matter and we say that we 
are living in a wolrd tnhatverse possesses one energy now we know to harness 

Sad spread of corona virus in india

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Good Morning Everyone

Needless to say, The devastating air in india has claimed several thousands of lives due to  corona virus. This virus has now  become more deadly than the previous one in 2020.We have been facing such deadly grim circumstances since the time we observed Trump-Modi event  at sardar wallabh bhai patel stadium at Ahmaedabad in Gujrat. Since then the virus has shown us devastating  changes in our life.We tried beating plates we tried lighting candles but to no avail. The virus has not listened to any political will of our leaders.It kept spreading at their own pace and at the same time the  govt. kept themsleves busy in the "man ki baat". While we were busy listening to man ki baat we didnot know when and how the virus easily got into our home. There are a lot for the govt. to learn from this pandemic.The govt. can now feel how much dangerous the  situtation can be and how it can go out of control and how it can cost lives.keens of the dead are waiting at the cremation ground and they are being given token to cremate their loved ones.This incident shows the intensity of the virus spread and claiming of livess.the virus taught us how unpredictable lives are. All the probability model used by IIT's to predict the coming virus situation has failed badly. The second wave is  more dangerous than the previous one and claiming more lives than anyone would have thought of it.I personally coming to know about my contacts' relatives  getting infected with the virus.It seems that the virus has left no stone unturned in spreading itself.It does not only spread very fast but it also modifying itself to become more deadly than earlier.The situation has not only affected the person infected with the corona virus but also the person uninfected. It has caused the loss of livelihoods to many vulnerable sections of the society. poor has,the most, been affected by it. They are constantly living in fear of losing  livelihoods. They have only two options left either  to save their lives or to save their livelihoods. If they save lives,their livelihood will be gone or if they save livelihoods then their lives will be in danger. This has forced the people to sleep empty. They donot have any idea of how many days the situation will go on and how they will survive  and only things keeping them alive in this precariuos situation is thier hope. We all know that everything passes with the passage of time and there is nothing permanent in this world and this time shall also pass one day. As a new generation we may be facing this situation first time in our life but in the history of humanity this is not the first time . In the past human beings have faced many such circumstances and they have gone through it. We should derive motivation from those past events that how our ancester gone through it.In 1600 the cholera pandemic was at the peak in England  when famous scientist Issac newton came to decode the laws of gravitation. Hence, There Is an opportunity in disguise everywhere in every cicumstances.We should use our brain to utilise the  lockdown time at home in the  most productive way.We will come out victorious from this pandemic  at last in the end. 

Stay home, Stay safe. If Possible take care of  vulnerable persons in your surroundings.

The concept of God

 Why Allah is the only one? 

Allah is not the one and not the many. How many creators are there of this universe? Not the many Not the one. Then how does our mind assumes that there is only one Allah? Our five senses can not understand the concept of not the many, not the one? Let's assume I've to make understand a layman about the concept of Allah. for this, I would ask him some questions. 

Try to answer it. We know that gravitational pull is there in the earth which attracts everything towards itself. Scientists have found that there is a limit to this. 

if you would hurl something at such a speed that it could escape the earth's gravitational field then it would never come back. it will go into outer space and will start moving randomly as other cosmic bodies are moving.  one question you should ask yourself what is the point in outer space where suddenly earth's gravitational field ends. Is there any line across which you would find outer space and below which you would remain in the earth's gravitational field? Then scientist community would reply that there is no clear-cut demarcation line at which the earth's gravitational field ends completely. It slowly starts reducing very early and, for thousands of km, It keeps reducing slowly and at an infinite distance it would end completely. Therefore, the only purpose of telling you about the gravitational field of the earth is to make you understand that there is no clear-cut point where the gravitational field ends suddenly but it reduces slowly and ends infinitely. there is no clear demarcation line where you could say that here the gravitational field has ended. In the same way when I say God is one I am not wrong but when I say god is many then again I am not wrong then what is the difference between the concept of the one and the many? Before Delving into the concept of god let's have a look at some other examples also. Consider light passes through a prism and thereafter gets distributed in seven colors. we all know that white color is a mix of seven colors represented by VIBGYOR. This white light after being passed through a prism gets distributed in seven colors and the stripe of every color is just after one another in such a way that you can not say that green starts just after blue. It's a mix of colors which are overlapping with one another, which you can not separate and can not demarcate. All seven colors exist in a continuous way, demarcating one color from the other is difficult and it cannot be separated by any means. The point which I want to put forward is that try to understand the concept of numbers. Here you can not apply the concept of numbers. you can not say that the blue color went up to 10mm and green started just thereafter. You cannot see everything by the spectacles of numbers. There are numerous things in the universe that cannot be bounded by numbers. For which you need a proper and deeper understanding of the thing you are focussing. In the same way, I can say to you all try not to associate Allah with the number. Because the concept of Allah is beyond the concept of numbers. you can not limit Allah by the number only. it requires imbibing the entire universe in your subconscious mind because our senses are limited. Their functions are limited to the work for which they have evolved. Those sensors cannot help you to reach Allah. If you want to reach Allah, see Allah, face Allah, and feel Allah then you must use your subconscious mind. It will help you to see things that you might not have felt in your entire life. unleash yourself. unleash all your energy and try to focus on yourself instead of focusing on the deceiving world. The world will take you to the bizarre things that are temporary things that have a beautiful look but deceiving in nature,  the world is full of challenges. if you want adventure in your life then accept the challenges of life with full zeal and enthusiasm. it will thrill you, and it will give you a great feeling but it can not take you to God then what is the thing that can take you to God ? what is the thing that will help you to go through the entire universe? The five sense organs of your body are full of limitations. only your subconscious mind can help you to reach Allah. It Will help you to reach Allah when you unleash the whole energy of your mind to move and wander freely in the universe. 

If subconsciously you have inculcated bad things, if you have inculcated limitations in your mind then it can't help you anymore. for this, you have to be free of all greed, fear, desire, etc. If you could free your mind, your mind will automatically open the door to the entire universe. you will learn the thing which no one in the entire humanity might have learned.  you may learn and experience completely different things. you would also learn that the creator Allah can not be limited by a number alone. Allah is comprehensive. it is everywhere. its energy has been distributed throughout the entire universe. it is there in everything. it is continuous. it is not discrete that you can say that this is the only Allah.  you can not associate Allah with the number because Allah had been there even when there was nothing when the concept of time and space had not evolved when the concept of numbers was far from humanity because at that time even humanity had not evolved. when you could go back to the infinite time back then you would realize that all the energy and matters of God were concentrated at a point and then the sudden explosion of that energy led to the formation of the universe. Therefore, God is in everything. it is omnipresent, omiscient and omnipotent.It is comprehensive. Just for the sake of understanding those who do not feel things deeply, The concept of the only one has been given by the Prophets of Allah.Though the Prophet of Allah understood that the Almighty Allah is comprehensive, They gave this concept for people's understanding to avoid untoward incidents by them to associate Allah with the physical world.

Dwindling inner conscience

 We live our day today life but we never care about our inner conscince . our inner conscience keep weeping and we turn our head away from this. we donot bother about it. Though it is important to lead a satisfactory life, people donot give it the importance it deserve. This is the only reason we remain unsatisfied even after living a luxurious life.  a person having nothing in life may be happy and satisfied  on the other hand  a person having everything in life may be unhappy and unsatisfied from his life. this is because we donot think and meditate over the problems in our surroundings. 

We do have five senses in our body and we have become addicted of using this five senses only. Eyes help us to see around. ears help us to hear sounds in the surrounding. skins senses any type of touch in our body. tongue help us to identify teste of food and nose help us to smell. the usage of nose and tongue senses are for ourselves only. It doesnot interact with other human being, whereas our eyes and ears are in constant touch with our surroundings. Every moment it is sensing and capturing data from the outer environment and our mind use this data to process and after processing many thoughts regarding surrounding starts coming in our mind. our mind starts telling about different possibilities of the surrounding. Our eyes and ears constantly recieving data from outside. unless we  filter this data before entering our mind , our mind will always be busy in useless data. tryto reduce the load over your mind. This useless data keep using your mental energy and this may be called  as distraction that  dteres you from your path and from your goal. Soif we want to use our mind effectively first of all we need to block extra information  extra energy coming in our mind. 

Successful blocking of useless external data will give the chances to your mind to think over the problem of the society. the mind will get the chances to peep inside itself and it could  have the chances to ask many questions like who are you? what is the purpose of settling you on the earth? why you are born ?  what you want from your life? your mind will rewind you again and againn that you have limited time to live on the earth. Before You leave the earth what would be the greatest thing for you that you would like to perform and that you would like to do. Many Times we have heard about sixth senses some people also say it 3rd eyes. It depends upon you whatever you call this. But This is the inner conscience that keep us rewinding  of how much days are left to live on the earth. they will start questioning yourself and i bet it would be very difficult to answer yourself. because its very easy to answer someone else  and very difficult when your mind starts  questioning you then a fighting starts in your mind only that you  would be dealing inside and no one outside will be aware of it. There Is a complete world living inside yourself and you look for answer towards the world. it happens when we are not aware of our conscience and  we keep our mind busy in the useless quarrel and skirmishes. When We give the chances to our mind it starts questioning. Questioning will give you the chances to know you world and your universe in a better way. No need to go anywhere for the search of absolute knowledge . it is living inside you. you have forgotten it for the petty things of life.

Personal Attribute

 personal attribute:-

Sometimes I ,when comfortable at a particular topic ,like to speak fluently without even noticing that the person in the front might be getting bored. This habit of mine is very bad. it must be removed  before we face the similiar awkward circumstances again. Removing this habit will give me an edge over others in communication skill. Speaking on a topic of having good amount of knowledge  would feel me good but at the same time it will offend the person whom i am talking with if he does not possess the same experties in the topic. 

So whenever, talking with other, keep in mind that I should speak on the topic with which the person in the front is also aware of. 

Such a situation arose when I was talking to Md ijhar alam(one of my uncle in the village). I continued to speak and kept on advising him on how to use ppt, excel, tally ,Ms word software etc. He was feeling bored  while i was speaking continuously unknownigly on this topic. I 

was also advising him on how to use and how to learn these softwares. I was also subconsciously showing him that i possessed good knowledge on the topic which he is just going to start learning.

Subconsciously I was trying to be dominant in the conversation. Observing all these behaviours from my side he also tried to use Newtons 3rd law . He started to react in a very bad way. now it was my time to get offended as he had started advising me on how to do creative work. he started to show me that i am not good at my own engineering knowledge and advising him is wrong. 

#one of the important thing to understand from this conversation is that the uncle is subconsciously aggressive and his tolerance level is very low. He might go even farther in offending me if i did not handle the matter by saying that the hint is enough for a wiseman. 

#second thing to understand from his reaction is that he subconsciously donot give me  respect .

 he shows his respect for me only at the front  but in the inner-shelf he does not give me respect. When the time will come he would show his disrespect for me. His disrespect for me will get revealed in the future but after having this conversation some of his inbuilt character got revealed and came out. 

It will give me an edge over him in the communication in future.

Inner conscience

 It is very difficult to define who i am. Most often whenever  i remain alone . I use to ask myself a question who i am and what is the purpose of my life and for what i have been living in this world. Who caused me to exist in this world and why? what have i been doing in this world? Theese are some of the questions which always haunt me . I keep thinking about these questions? While thinking about the questions of mine I thought of people who work for upsc ,who work for their family, who works for money and several other motivational things are there in the world to keep going.  But When I analyse myself and ask these questions to myslef whether the objective of my life is to earn money whether the objective of my life is to be an ias officer whether  the objective of my life is to be a politician whether the objective of my life is to work for my community . 

When I thought of being an ias officer i think will i be able to solve all the problem of the whole society will i be able to achieve the peak of happiness. even if i achieve happiness will that last for long . If not for long time then for how many days will it remain in my life. What will then happen in my life? what will become the next source of happiness?

Will i be able to solve all the problems of the society after becoming an ias officer? If i can not solve all the problem,then what should i become which would remove all the problems of the society.the only thing to solve all the problem of the society is to create a revolution in the society.Our aim should be to change the society as a whole.So many questions are there in my mind. Time to time many new questions also emerges. How can i get the answer for all my questions? will there be someone who could answer my question and i would get satisfied by his answer. If i dont get satisfied with that  person's answer  then where is the solution? who will give the answer to my questions? These questions  emanate like a river from my mind? My mind also says the ultimate source of knowledge is itself . when the answer to all the things lie in our mind only then why large no of people wandering and following other people blindly without listening to their mind. In such a state  what happens in their mind that they start following some influential person blindly. they start thinking that following the successful person will make them successful without understanding the need to peep inside our own mind and think for a minute that whatever u r going to do by following someone  will destroy ur life . u will forget ur own life and will start living other person life which had never been ur dream. The practicality of life is that every moment every time u have to be aware of everything happening in ur life. observe the life on the earth. observe all natural and manmade phenomena happening on the earth. have the guts to take immediate and important decision of ur life on time. every moment every where think and use ur own mind and donot focus on the other person attitude rather focus all ur energy on urself only. Because ur mind has been designed by the almighty allah in such a way that u are capable of taking all the decision of ur life. noone can stop and noone can help u to solve the predicament of ur mind. It can be best used for ur own understanding. If u are doing good in ur life. noone can stop u from achieving ur dream or goal. If u are doing bad in  ur life no other person can give u happiness unless u unleash and free ur own mind and accept that even having nothing in  ur life can not stop u from being happy. Positivity is very important thing in anyones life to lead a healthy and wise life . Allah taala alludes to in the Quraan that I have created countless  things for ur  sustenance . why dont u observe these  things around u . the things which i created for ur sustenance are scattered everywhere on the earth. U are also not away from the list of my creativity. u human are my creativity. and I created countless lives and matters around u for ur livelyhood and sustenace. .